At what point do you look over your shoulder to see if he’s doing the same? When you’re doing it he might only be thinking about it or he could be doing it while you’re making up your mind! Hopefully, five or ten paces on, you’ll both do it at the same time. If he does the same – and any longer than is usual between strangers – continue to look at him as you pass him. As you near each other look straight into his eyes in friendly non-threatening manner. Be casual, and if you’re unfamiliar with the art of subtlety it’s possibly best not to try. Depending on the distance between you, you may need to change your angle of approach to ensure you pass by.Looks can be deceptive, and many straight men dress gay for fashion. First things first, check your ‘gaydar’ (that exclusive sixth sense only known to gay men).So, if you see a guy you like, here are a few handy tips: Meeting guys on the street happens all the time, but while the theory is simple, the practice requires a little more balls and timing.